one of our readers – without access to a bible – requested i post the pertinent scripture.  so, here goes from the new king james version.

(26) Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses.  For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.  (27) Now, He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God.

We are the ones with groanings which cannot be uttered.